Grocery Shopping, Looking Mean, and a Hula Hooping Cat

First of all, the comments on yesterday’s post are so much fun! If you didn’t read or comment, check it out because I want to hear your unpopular opinions 😬

Sadie and I went to Whole Foods together for the first time! Have your ever heard its nickname? Whole Paycheck. Amazon recently partnered with Whole Foods to offer Prime members discounts on certain items, and Jimmy encouraged me to check it out and see how the prices compared to stores like Walmart, Aldi, Target, our regular grocery store, etc.

Young girl holding grocery list in cart at Whole Foods

Of course, my trusty sidekick helped me out! She really urged me to get Chinese eggplant, so I obviously had to 😉 Also, I’m super happy to report that I didn’t get food poisoning from it like I did the last time I ate eggplant!

My thoughts? It was a nice experience! The store wasn’t crazy busy and it was clean and neat. Buying produce, store-brand dry goods, and bulk foods is the way to go. I found things like non-organic produce to be the same price per pound as where I usually shop.

Would I recommend buying kid’s toys, deodorant, and lobster there? Probably not! Unless there was a really good sale, lol.

Our whole family (pets included!) was sitting on the couch on Sunday afternoon and Jimmy took a selfie just as I looked up from the book I was reading.

Family selfie with pets on couch

He sent it to me and I was like “Do I actually look like that?! I look so mean!!” 😂 Also, I thought it was interesting who sat by who! Niva seems to favor Jimmy and Malcolm tends to favor me. Sadie was playing Pokemon on Jimmy’s lap. #Nostalgia

Okay, one more random picture before I finish this post. I think my mom and dad send the best and most random pictures to our family group text.

Cat sitting in a hula hoop

First of all, I think it’s pretty cool that my mom and dad have basically transformed their sun porch into a play room for their grandkids. And the fact that their cat “plays” with the toys? Icing on the cake!

Also, if you remember when Lily first made her adorable kitten appearance on the blog, you have been reading my blog since 2011!

Aaaand that’s about all I have for today! I’m currently celebrating the fact that I went to the dentist today and was in the no cavity club 🤓

Have you ever shopped at Whole Foods?

Do you like going to the dentist?

What was the funniest or most random picture you last received?


My Writing Adventure

Well, I survived the dentist! It wasn’t too bad. The first shot of Novocain didn’t really work. Thankfully, the second shot did, but I still felt intense pain a few times during the procedure. I’m so glad it’s done and feeling very thankful for Novocain. My teeth are a little tender today, but I think I’ll be just fine. I told Jimmy that if I ever need anything more than a cavity filled or repaired, I’m looking into sedation dentistry 😉

Photo on 3-22-16 at 4.59 PM #2

I decided to treat myself for making it through the dentist by giving myself a manicure with hot pink polish to celebrate spring. (Can you tell I was having fun with webcam filters in the picture?!) Funny story: My hand twitched while I was painting my nails and I spilled polish all over my shirt, jeans, and couch. I guess I was feeling jumpy?!

So, now I’m ready to discuss my book writing process! Let’s dive in.

As I mentioned previously, my book idea started with a question. I woke up one morning and thought if this happened, then what? The first thing I did was grab a piece of paper and let my mind run wild. I jotted down basic ideas, questions, names, themes, and places. I was honestly surprised I wanted to write a novel because I’m such a huge fan of nonfiction, but I decided to just go with it.

Once I had the basic gist of the plot, I started to create an outline. The outline was more detailed in the first few chapters, and I have continued to update it as I have delved further into the story and have a better idea of what I want to happen in later chapters. I will note, though, that I still don’t have a specific ending for the story yet. I’m torn on what I want to happen, ha. I think as I continue to write, it will become more clear. I hope!

I made profiles of each character, then a spreadsheet of all the characters. I also made a document filled with all the town names, houses, and places in the novel and descriptions for each place.


Thankfully Jimmy allows me to use his laptop to write! And blog 🙂

After creating the outline, character profiles, and places document came the hardest part: starting. I was incredibly afraid to just start writing, but once I did I was fine. At first, I was writing thousands of words a day, and some days I still do. Other days I’m at 500 or less. I try to focus on quality over quantity!

I also created a scene list, which has been very helpful when I don’t want to go back through the whole document and find a specific detail. I try to write every day, but it doesn’t always happen. As for what time I write, I’m all over the place. Morning, noon, or night, if I have free time I try to hit the keyboard. I don’t have a schedule because I work different hours and jobs each day.

I’m currently about 30,000 words into my first draft. Being the journalism major that I am, I have gone back and edited a few times, but nothing too serious. I’ve heard that you should never edit a first draft until you’re finished, but it has been helpful for me to edit here and there so I keep my plot and characters’ voices focused.


The biggest challenges so far have been choosing character names I like, writing from a male’s perspective (each chapter switches between a male and female as the first person narrator) and just staying dedicated to writing as much as I can. It’s way too easy to get distracted.

The best parts of this journey have been the learning experience of writing a book and having something that is inspired by various experiences I have had or have simply wanted to learn and write about. Basically, it feels amazing to create. I was asked if I will share the plot, and I may in due time. I’m still so protective of my “baby” and self-conscious about the story, but we’ll see if that changes as I get closer to finishing.

I don’t know if I’ll look into having my book published. If I really like the story, I will probably try. If not, I’ll be glad I embarked on this fun experience. Either way, it has been great and I’m following God’s lead for my life as best I can.

I think that’s everything?! Feel free to ask any other questions in the comments. Thanks, again, to everyone who is so supportive and encouraging. It means a lot to me!