Parenting

Worst Scare So Far and More Messes

I think I had my worst parenting scare yet last night. Jimmy’s dad came over to pick him up so they could drive to a church meeting together and Sadie was crying at the front door when they left. We have a storm door along with our front door, so we left the front door open so she could look out the glass of the storm door as Jimmy and my father-in-law left.

I went into another room to do something and I didn’t hear Sadie after a bit, so I called for her and she didn’t respond. Sometimes she hides, so I started looking all around the house and under our bed. Nothing. I pulled out my last trick of “do you want to watch tv?!” and when there was no response I started to panic.

I went outside and looked up and down the street and it was completely silent and I didn’t see Sadie at all. I called Jimmy and told him I couldn’t find her and he asked if I checked under the bed. I went back in and looked again just in case and she wasn’t there.

I went back outside and a woman was walking up the street holding Sadie. I threw my phone down and went to them, feeling so relieved and thankful she was safe.

The woman found her three houses down from ours, about to cross the street when a car was coming. I hugged the woman and thanked her repeatedly and just felt every emotion under the sun. Relief that Sadie was okay and God was watching over her, thankful for the woman who was at the right place at the right time, and guilt for not realizing Sadie could work the handle on our storm door and that I wasn’t watching her more closely.

Toddler smiling

Home, safe and sound. Praise God!

I brought her inside and she was just fine, happy even. I think she enjoyed her little adventure and meeting a new friend that pretty much saved her life. Meanwhile I feel like I can burst into tears when I think about what could have happened. Jimmy and I said a prayer of thankfulness before bed last night and I think we were both crying out of relief and thankfulness while laying there.

Whew, parenting is scary sometimes.

It’s also rewarding and fun and messy. Yesterday’s mess of the day was basically my doing because I created a little pouring station, kind of like I did in February, but the mess was outside this time 🙂

Toddler outdoor pouring station

I also got groceries at Aldi and came home with a water table. I had been looking for one on Craigslist because they seemed kind of pricey online, but Aldi had one for under $30! I set it up and we both had a ball splashing around way past Sadie’s bed time. I didn’t mind because she was alive and safe and we were having fun.

Toddler with water table

Since we got a water table, I decided it was time to pass on an outdoor toy to make room for this one. I washed up and listed her garden table on Craigslist for free, and I’m excited to be passing it on for another family to enjoy in a few days!

Something else I passed on? A bit of the produce I mentioned in this post. I texted two neighbors and one took a few pounds of apples to make an apple crisp and another took a little of all the produce! Now I just need to make a pie 🙂

Have you passed anything on lately?

If you have kids, have they ever been lost?

Highs and Lows in Parenting

Whew, we had quite the day earlier this week. It started out completely normal… until we had an ambulance at our house.

Baby girl smiling while sitting in grass

Sadie was hanging out with me in our bathroom and fell backwards and hit her head. She falls all the time, so it wasn’t too big of a deal. She cried pretty hard, so I picked her up and snuggled her in my arms until she stopped.

About a minute or two later, I looked at her and she had blood coming out of her mouth. It was on her hand, her shirt, shorts, and face. I tried to check in her mouth to see where the blood was coming from but couldn’t find anything. I started freaking out and decided to call 911 because I wasn’t sure if she had a concussion or why she would be bleeding from her mouth after falling backwards.

The 911 dispatcher told me to call back if Sadie became unconscious and said an ambulance was on its way. Within a few minutes, we had a team of paramedics checking Sadie out and asking about what happened. They had me try and open her mouth and inside her upper lip we found a cut. I have never been more relieved for my child to be cut in my life!

The paramedics offered to take Sadie to the local children’s hospital but I declined since we had figured out she was bleeding from the cut in her mouth and not from a head injury, lol.

Sadie was playing on the kitchen floor while Jimmy and I were eating dinner that night and she stood up and took her first steps.

Baby girl smiling in shoe store

What a roller coaster of a day. I went from worrying that Sadie had a concussion to witnessing her first steps just hours later. If I’ve learned anything about parenting, it’s that the highs are higher and the lows are lower.

I would do anything to never have Sadie experience hurt–physically or emotionally. At the same time, I know that’s not realistic in this world and the trials of life develop our character. The lows of parenthood are tough. The highs, though? Wow. It’s amazing to watch this little being that God has blessed us with. We see her grow, learn, and develop right before our eyes and there’s nothing like it.

Just like God develops the character of our children through tough times, He develops their parents right along with ’em through all the highs and lows ❤